
There’s been a ton of buzz the last couple weeks about a new show on Netflix called Tidying Up with Marie Kondo. When the house felt relatively clean and I had straight vacuum lines in the carpet, I thought it was time to give it a watch and see what all the hype was about.
One episode in and I knew I’d be writing a blog. I mean, I already wrote a semi-blog on instagram this week about my new roaster pan https://www.instagram.com/p/BsWT0DqlvCG/ so moving into the home organization direction wasn’t a huge leap.
First of all, Marie Kondo is an adorable human. I’d like to be her friend, but I’m not sure I’m sweet enough to even be in her presence. I’m fascinated with her home organization methods and I can see how they work. I also am a fan of no clutter and seeing spaces transformed, so I love watching people clean up their homes and it inspires me to keep on top of ours. I can appreciate how a place or space feels and I value atmosphere for many different reasons.
But then.
Marie went all joy on us.
Taking it to a whole other level.
And it struck a deep chord in me.
Because joy. Joy is something we forget that we need in our life, and it’s easy to let it slip away. Sometimes we wonder if we even deserve joy, or if it’s just something that occasionally we get a taste of until the next moment it pops up. We can easily overlook the meaning it brings to deep places, and that it can be a sustainable way of life.
Far beyond our cupboards and drawers.
In Marie terms, you appreciate the things that you have. When you no longer need them, or they no longer spark joy in your life, you thank them and say good-bye. I’ll admit watching people talk to their old t-shirts and say a farewell was a little odd at first. But, I got what she was doing.
We hold onto a lot of things that we don’t need.
Life happens. Circumstances comes. If we are not careful, we allow emotions and feelings into our life that smother out our joy. We hoard the hurt and let it pile up inside.
Forgetting that we can let go,
to create space for what is ahead.
Marie got me thinking beyond shelves and cupboards about what sparks joy in my own life, and reflecting on what I need to say good-bye to. We can all be honest and admit that there are things that take up valuable room in our hearts and block anything else from coming in.
We hold on, and unless we release we don’t make new space.
Space for new seasons.
Space for adventures.
Space for pursuit.
There’s no room for more joy,
Unless we make it.
And we can.
We can allow ourselves to say good-bye to the things in our life that are preventing us from walking in the fullness of joy that is available to us. So get rid of that stuff. You can’t roll everything up as easily as an old-shirt that you haven’t worn in 20 years, but it is possible to let things go that are taking up too much space in your head and heart places. You can be thankful for a season that you walked through, good or bad – and trust there is room for greater joy ahead.
So make that room.
I’ve been thinking about things that spark joy in my life.
Faith. Creativity. Family. Learning. Mentoring. Writing. DIY Projects. Movies. Walking in my neighbourhood. Spending time with my friends. Serving others. Being part of community.
These are the joy sparks of my life.
What I want to fill my heart spaces with.
So, this week I’m cleaning out some clutter in my house. (You’ll be proud of me adorable Marie)
Saying thank-you and good-bye to a few things. Then, I’m doing a little tidying up of my own cluttered inside spaces too. I want to make room in my heart. There’s lots of good in there already, but I want more.
Complete joy, pure joy, shouts of joy, great joy and filled with joy.
I want more room for joy.
Maybe that’s why Marie is everywhere I look,
It’s not just about the closets.
Our world could use more joy too.
Great thought about how we hoard hurt – that is so true!
It’s hard to let things go, especially when it’s deep inside!
A great reminder to let go of past hurts which makes space for more joy in our lives! And yes, Marie is utterly adorable!
Sometimes we just hold onto stuff for too long, especially inside! Have you seen pics of her kids on instagram? They might be cuter than her…if that’s possible!
Lol I just watched the first episode tonight bc I have just been really wanting everything in my house to have a place, so I thought maybe this lady has some tips in there and now I just read your blog lol!
I too thought the thanking clothes was alittle much for me but that concept of joy and what matters was great and she did seem just like a pet you would want to be around so her energy/ joyfulness can spill over into yours …. thanks for the blog was so great (have things to think about and clothes to fold!)
Person not a pet?♀️?
LOL
Yah I loved the concepts of joy!
And also, I’m trying to fold that crazy way. Might take me awhile!
Outstanding post- I like the idea of watching wis show using a filter- when she thanks an object for its service, I turn it around to thank God for clothes to wear and clothes to give away. When she kneels to bless the house, I’m praying she will find Jesus in her gratitude practice.
I love this take on decluttering! A few months ago I tackled the living room and the mounds of kids’ toys housed there. I noticed that when my physical space was decluttered, it freed up my head and heart space as well! And freeing up space for JOY is wonderful goal!
I started decluttering 2 days after christmas and told my Family 2019 was the year we decluttered. Today i watched Marie for the first time and i was a little thrown off by her thanking the houses! But i got it. Being Thankful with what you have means you dont always need to fill life up with more stuff!! Enough really is Enough Sometimes!!
great words. I love the idea of being grateful for ur house. it’s so hard to let go of past hurts. definitely working on that this year.
Yes! It’s a work in progress isn’t it? Which I think is ok!
Beautiful, Shelly. I’m so glad you’re writing and using your gift.
Thanks so much Rebecca!
This is so good! I personally think Marie Kondo is a bit…MUCH, but I do love your take on what she says about joy. And while I will never seriously thank my old t-shirts for their service, I definitely see the value of gratitude for our stuff and our home and our experiences. (Also, I have decluttered about 2/3 of my house in the last few days, so obviously the one episode I watched got to me!) 🙂
Yes! It all is a bit much I agree, I’m just fascinated with this perspective on home and what it means to people, and even what our things mean – it’s so interesting! And yay for being inspired to clean out some of our stuff! Thanks for reading Mary!
Got hooked on the show, and yes, I felt the same way…think about joy. It reminded me also about pray for my spaces–home and work. Thank you Shelly for extending the thinking to all areas of life–I seek joy 🙂
Yes! Thanks for reading xo
I did this in January and purged my home of 30 bags of donations and garbage. Felt shameful really that we had so much, too much. Why do we feel the need to buy so much ?
Also Marie Kondo is the cutest person ever.
Marie Kondo – changed my house. LOL